This Woman With Scars Was Inspired To Make A Film For Anyone Else Who Has Them
After her Instagram picture went viral, Elman was flooded with positive feedback. But she felt she hadn’t told the whole story.
“I was getting all these messages and the messages weren’t about the scars as much as [they were] about the story. I really wanted to make the story behind scars and how scars impact [people’s lives].” Elman told BuzzFeed News.
“With the first post some people thought it was superficial, but it’s not because it has a sociological affect on someone. When you get these unfortunate situations where people stare at you weirdly. It affects your self esteem, it affects your confidence. It has broader implications that people don’t think about,” she added.
“People would give me funny looks because of my scars but no one was having an actual conversation about it.” Elman explains. “It was frustrating typing into Google ‘How do I tell my boyfriend about my scars’ and I realised that no one is having this conversation,” she continued.
Elman suffered from a brain tumor when she was younger. She said: “No one actually told me that to remove [it], they were going to have to shave my hair off.”
She said: “So I woke up with a half-shaved head… thinking I am not normal anymore. To a child, you just want to fit in with your friends. And that’s why I wanted to make it into a bigger conversation.”
The 22-year-old added: “I started volunteering at Great Ormond Street, I was walking around the ward and all I could think about was the fact that, everything single one of these children would leave here with a scar. This isn’t a conversation held anywhere. And that’s why the video happened.”
Elman said: “I like that everyone has a different story, it shows that everyone’s journey is personal, from acne scars to cancer scars. But it all essentially comes down to the same thing. We are battling with our bodies.”
“I received a message about the video from a girl and she spoke about how she showed her scars for the first time… she would always wear long sleeve shirts and she’s in hospital at the moment,” Elman said.
Since her Instagram post went viral last year, Elman said she’s only recieved two negative comments.
“The two negative comments were about my weight. Someone said to me ‘People are not staring at you because of your scars, it’s your weight.’ What would you rather me do? Wait for me to lose weight before I start this whole campaign. I don’t need to have the perfect body before I launch my campaign.” Elman said.
“Someone else said, ‘Are you going to do any more campaigning about your weight?’ I didn’t even mention the word ‘weight’ in any of my Instagram posts. People see what they want to see,” she explained.
Elman works full time in London for her own body confidence company called Mindset For Life in London. She does public speaking in schools and writes blog posts regarding body confidence.
“I share stuff on my Instagram which has a following of 10,500 followers. It’s like a little community. I share stories on their about scars… For example I shared this story I saw on BuzzFeed about a baby with a birthmark, I posted that on my Instagram to show my followers.”